Comments on: Feeling Deeply Remorseful After A Break Up http://luvlifecoach.com/blog/13/feeling-deeply-remorseful-after-a-break-up/ When you're willing and ready to make the change, we're here with you to make that difference happen! Fri, 10 Sep 2010 05:45:42 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2 By: David http://luvlifecoach.com/blog/13/feeling-deeply-remorseful-after-a-break-up/comment-page-1/#comment-13560 David Tue, 21 Apr 2009 19:08:12 +0000 http://luvlifecoach.com/blog/13/feeling-deeply-remorseful-after-a-break-up/#comment-13560 funny how i am in the same situation...except she consider me as her best friend and such but i do want to get back with her..she told me that I hurt her badly and that and she's hurt because i have broken up with her...but i told her i've learned is the best way to be their as a bf and show her that i've changed....i've gone to do other things too but ill be there when she needs me but i have my other life i focus on. She also talked to me yesterday about how the guy she's dating right now doesnt feel as if she's in a relationship. Supposedly the guy is too busy for her and she wants to go out beside studying all the time. What should i do? funny how i am in the same situation…except she consider me as her best friend and such but i do want to get back with her..she told me that I hurt her badly and that and she’s hurt because i have broken up with her…but i told her i’ve learned is the best way to be their as a bf and show her that i’ve changed….i’ve gone to do other things too but ill be there when she needs me but i have my other life i focus on. She also talked to me yesterday about how the guy she’s dating right now doesnt feel as if she’s in a relationship. Supposedly the guy is too busy for her and she wants to go out beside studying all the time. What should i do?

]]> By: Love Coach Kloudiia http://luvlifecoach.com/blog/13/feeling-deeply-remorseful-after-a-break-up/comment-page-1/#comment-88 Love Coach Kloudiia Mon, 14 Apr 2008 08:37:18 +0000 http://luvlifecoach.com/blog/13/feeling-deeply-remorseful-after-a-break-up/#comment-88 Hi ks, thanks for your update. To begin with, I hope you don't find the time to heal yourself as wasted, not if it had brought a new perspective for you in terms of relationships. It is time well-invested! As the saying goes "Time is the best medicine", you have done well for yourself. You deserve a pat on your back for resolving to be strong! And isn't it great to discover some buddies you have and the kind of support they have given you? Friendship is really a blessing, and I hope you will treasure them when you have it. :) Continue to work on getting over your past relationship, so that when you meet the next one, you will be totally ready to accept love once again. This time, on a completely new slate, ok? All the best ks! Hi ks, thanks for your update. To begin with, I hope you don’t find the time to heal yourself as wasted, not if it had brought a new perspective for you in terms of relationships. It is time well-invested! As the saying goes “Time is the best medicine”, you have done well for yourself. You deserve a pat on your back for resolving to be strong!

And isn’t it great to discover some buddies you have and the kind of support they have given you? Friendship is really a blessing, and I hope you will treasure them when you have it. :)

Continue to work on getting over your past relationship, so that when you meet the next one, you will be totally ready to accept love once again. This time, on a completely new slate, ok?

All the best ks!

]]> By: ks http://luvlifecoach.com/blog/13/feeling-deeply-remorseful-after-a-break-up/comment-page-1/#comment-58 ks Fri, 21 Mar 2008 18:26:05 +0000 http://luvlifecoach.com/blog/13/feeling-deeply-remorseful-after-a-break-up/#comment-58 Hi Kloudiia.... some updates, life's been 'back to normal' to me now. I have wasted half a year to heal myself, and there were many friends out there who walked together with me, really thankful for their presence & help... i met a gal during that period of remorse. end up i get very close to her n i developed feeling for her... i confess myself to her but i didnt expect anything, coz i know i have not completely let go of my past... we continued to go out tgt and i can feel that she likes me as well although she didnt speak of her feeling... that day, i invited my friends to my party, and since then she has been dating him! lol... how sarcastic... one day she told me that she n he are couples alr! gosh~ she explained to me that she had also considered me, but she didnt wanted to be the '3rd' person because i have not sorted out my past... i know why i can treat this new found gal so nice... it's because i have changed, i want to changed for my ex, but since my love for her (ex) didnt have any means to channel out, the only way to release my 'love' is to treat her (new) nice & sweet. the gal was touched, but knowing the feeling of being in someone else rebound relationship, she nvr accepted me but my friend... anyway, im feeling much better now. i really feel that im a better person now. i am not hoping that she will (ex) come back to me, but if someday we were tgt again, i know my love will move her once more! Hi Kloudiia….

some updates, life’s been ‘back to normal’ to me now. I have wasted half a year to heal myself, and there were many friends out there who walked together with me, really thankful for their presence & help…

i met a gal during that period of remorse. end up i get very close to her n i developed feeling for her… i confess myself to her but i didnt expect anything, coz i know i have not completely let go of my past… we continued to go out tgt and i can feel that she likes me as well although she didnt speak of her feeling…

that day, i invited my friends to my party, and since then she has been dating him! lol… how sarcastic… one day she told me that she n he are couples alr! gosh~ she explained to me that she had also considered me, but she didnt wanted to be the ’3rd’ person because i have not sorted out my past…

i know why i can treat this new found gal so nice… it’s because i have changed, i want to changed for my ex, but since my love for her (ex) didnt have any means to channel out, the only way to release my ‘love’ is to treat her (new) nice & sweet. the gal was touched, but knowing the feeling of being in someone else rebound relationship, she nvr accepted me but my friend…

anyway, im feeling much better now. i really feel that im a better person now. i am not hoping that she will (ex) come back to me, but if someday we were tgt again, i know my love will move her once more!

]]> By: Love Coach Kloudiia http://luvlifecoach.com/blog/13/feeling-deeply-remorseful-after-a-break-up/comment-page-1/#comment-6 Love Coach Kloudiia Thu, 22 Nov 2007 17:02:54 +0000 http://luvlifecoach.com/blog/13/feeling-deeply-remorseful-after-a-break-up/#comment-6 I'm sorry to hear about this KS, but at the same time, doesn't it also give you some form of relief to know the truth? At least you can channel your energy and thoughts towards getting over that relationship and moving on. I'm sure you will be able to find another girl you love. All the best to you :) I’m sorry to hear about this KS, but at the same time, doesn’t it also give you some form of relief to know the truth? At least you can channel your energy and thoughts towards getting over that relationship and moving on. I’m sure you will be able to find another girl you love. All the best to you :)

]]> By: KS http://luvlifecoach.com/blog/13/feeling-deeply-remorseful-after-a-break-up/comment-page-1/#comment-5 KS Thu, 22 Nov 2007 13:16:13 +0000 http://luvlifecoach.com/blog/13/feeling-deeply-remorseful-after-a-break-up/#comment-5 thanks for the reply.... everything is different now... she's with another guy now, and the guy happens to be my roommate ><a> thanks for the reply…. everything is different now…

she’s with another guy now, and the guy happens to be my roommate >

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