How to Choose Between Two Simply Perfect Girls?
“Hi Kloudiia,
How to Choose Between Two Simply Perfect Girls?
I’m in this kind dilemma’s. Recently, I gotta know these 2 great girls. Both are extremely hot and pretty, both of them are from differents country. One is from China yet another was from neighbour country and both of them was falling in love with me and want to be my wife badly. They has make a decission to travel to Singapore to be with me in next few months time.
This thing is getting me worry and nervous. As I love both of them. I think both of them have their unique personalities that attracts me.
I enjoy the moment of spending time with both of them.
and now I gotta choose 1. sigh…………………….
as both of them was planning to come here to spend the rest of their life with me.
If I don’t make decision now. there’s high chances that I might lose both of them.
Which one is the right one I should get marriage with?? The right one that I should spend the rest of my life with?
Any idea how to choose?” - S
Dear S
Lucky you! Or unlucky you?
You know as well as I do that the happiness of two perfect girls lie in your hands, or rather, in your heart.
You say you love them both, and both of them are reciprocating your feelings as well. And you are considering which girl to marry at this point when you have not formally .
Marriage is a serious thing in life. It speaks about full commitment and dedication to one person. The emphasis is one person. If you are strongly attracted to two person at the same time, then how ready you deem yourself to be ready for marriage?
Spending time with them is very different from being committed together. Have you found out how compatible you are with either of them in terms of values, attitude towards and outlook on life, financial values etc? Do you know what it takes to manage a relationship?
Attraction will not last forever. Therefore, it shouldn’t be used as a gauge to decide whether or not you love a person enough to want to commit.
Before you make any decision, I strongly suggest you do some homework yourself in discovering how ready you are for any relationship now. Only then you will have the answer to which girl to choose. When you want to take more responsibility in this area of your life, you can consider taking up our love coaching program to assist you.
Love, Kloudiia
Technorati Tags: triangle relationship, boyfriend, girlfriend, dating & relationship
