My Friend Needs Hitch To Get Hitched
“Hello, I have a friend named D and he has a problem with meeting girls. He is shy and not confident in himself because he meets women and all they want to be is, friends. I tell him he likes the wrong type of females.
He is a really nice and genuine guy and I really want to see him happy but he needs a girl that is not in the norm. He is black, but tired of the black female because they are too demanding, and he wants a female that doesn’t put him in a category of being a hood rat. Can you please put him with someone that is nice, have advice, or give me someone that can is someone like Hitch (the movie)?” - S
Dear S
D must be really lucky to have a friend like you who takes care of his happiness.
You’re right to say that he is probably meeting and approaching the wrong type of females. Or maybe his way of approaching and developing a relationship is flawed in certain areas. Those could be his blind spots in the course of dating and courtship, which, well he is blind to and hence isn’t aware.
If D is really keen in wanting to improve his love life and to be able to settle down with a girl whom they share the same feelings about each other, then he needs to take stock of what has happened so far and what he can do about them to turn the situation around.
There are many things that could enhance or sabotage his chances in getting the girl he wants. For example, how he can capitalise on his niceness to express his sincerity towards a girl. Or how he can track down the person who will be able to appreciate him as who he is. Does he know all these now? Or is he simply fishing blindly in the big open sea with no aim and target in mind?
Haha, since you’re looking for Hitch, then maybe I can do my best to fill in those big shoes and coach D into becoming the confident man who will attract the lady whom he fancies.
That is, provided that D is a willing party to be coached, and wants to have a satisfying and happy relationship. Otherwise, no amount of help or advice will be able to change things as they are now.
Drop me an email if D is ready to take his love life to another higher level!
Love, Kloudiia
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