A Matter Of Strategy
He had already fallen for her even when she was dating another guy. Hence, he decided to linger around her side and be her “confidante”. As a result, he was the first to know about what went on between her and her boyfriend. When they broke up, guess who was there to be the saviour?
They were classmates in a part-time degree course. Both of them were holding day time jobs, and she was one of the more popular girls in class. To get near her, he went all out to be there for her when she needed help. When he knew she had an intention to quit school because of the exhausting schedule juggling work and school, he bought a car and started ferrying her from office to school and home after that. As a result, he eliminated all competition because he would be the one to have dinner with her before school and sending her home. For this, she continued with her studies and they got married.
What can we learn from the two cases above?
When we set goals, we need to have a strategy on how to achieve them. However many times, we are conscientious on devising strategies to accomplish monetary and career goals, but when it comes to matters of the heart, they feel that having a strategy means setting up a trap for the other person.
I really beg to differ, for it is my belief that as with anything in life, it requires a strategy. The first plan may not work out, but we’ll definitely learn some lessons and use them to fine-tune our strategy.
Did those two guys trick the girls to be their girlfriends or even wife? No, but they did know of the best way to get close to them and constantly remain at the top of the girl’s mind. The love and sincerity is genuine, and this, is precisely the reason why having a strategy to go after a girl (or even guy) is not considered a devious trap.
However, if a guy intends to go after a girl for immoral reasons, then regardless if he has a strategy or not, his intentions are not pure to begin with.
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